N~ Tyese

WHEN THE STARS ALIGN HE'LL KNOW IT'S A PERFECT TIME. So, what girl at some point hasn't created her ideal wedding or perfect engagement?!? Although I never thought I'd be married or even get engaged. At some time or another (well if I'm honest- there has been plenty of times) Ha-Ha that I've mapped my wedding out from beginning to end. I had an idea for the dress, the pressure I'd put on my bridal party and the different ways I'd "Bond" with my future husband during the process. Speaking of the process, I have plenty of tea to share with you about that. A couple of to do's and not to do's lol.  BTW! No one's story is going to be the same. The absolute worst thing you can possibly do is put an image of the perfect proposal in your mind. It's too high of a standard for anyone to meet. Look for the authenticity and effort. If he knows you, even just a little he'll hit home! Or at least the doorstep. HA-HA. IT'S ALL ABO

        I'm sure at one time or another we can all relate to the calm after the storm. How amazingly humbling are the struggles! At this particular point in our marriage, the uphill battle had come to an end and we were embracing the calm. It was refreshing to feel. And, I never told my husband that there was a chance that I could be pregnant. I mean with all that was going on in life, we were finally finding ways to show that we loved each other again and able to feel the love. And it was amazing. Not to mention I was on birth control. Which never really means much, because it was only 99.9% effective. We were happier and so was the baby. Not ours, but theirs and she and I slowly became a piece of one another. In the middle of all the adjustments in life his first born child was left in our care for several months and we all learned to cope.  So my, I mean our lives altered. The task within itself was pretty large. But that'll be a convo for another blog! So stay tuned,